as a recovering avoidant, this was great <3 i would also say that ik everything you’ve said about communication and moving through avoidant tendencies into secure attachment is true but i cannot shake that i find aloof-ness and nonchalance so attractive. which means while working through my own avoidant attachment style i have to actively unlearn being drawn towards that. sigh
it's a lot of work and growth or healing is never linear! however, being aware is already a bold step in itself. much love to you and i hope we both find the strength to end negative cycles :)
as a recovering avoidant, this was great <3 i would also say that ik everything you’ve said about communication and moving through avoidant tendencies into secure attachment is true but i cannot shake that i find aloof-ness and nonchalance so attractive. which means while working through my own avoidant attachment style i have to actively unlearn being drawn towards that. sigh
it's a lot of work and growth or healing is never linear! however, being aware is already a bold step in itself. much love to you and i hope we both find the strength to end negative cycles :)
aw thank you for reading ❤️